Staying or Going Back?
Posted by Yeshiva Guy | Posted in Random Deranged Machshovas | Posted on 28-10-2009
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If you’re a bochur in the 22-24 age bracket, have a healthy (especially wealthy) and wise head on your shoulders, there is a question everyone will ask you when you go home for Bein Hazmanim. This is inevitable. There is no avoiding it. There is no escape. It is your fate.
The question induces fear into the hearts of some, thrill into the hearts of others, and only casual interest in a select few. The question is no doubt one you’ve asked yourself a few times. It is:
“So, are you staying, or going back? And if you’re staying, are you on the market?”
The market. The parsha. Nogeah. These are euphemisms designed to avoid a sensitive and highly personal matter that people feel they have an automatic right to pry into because they know of a potential shidduch. That this “shidduch” has no shaychus whatsoever to you, is 2 feet shorter, has an IQ shorter than that, and comes from a totally different background than you has nothing to do with the issue. They know of a homo sapien of the other gender also on the market, so boom! Let’s make a match. If the above scene has evoked mental imagery of an ancient shtetl and Zero Mostel-like characters, you aren’t too far off. Just fast-forward the scene two hundred years and change the location to the US. Otherwise, everything is exactly the same. Except the Yeshiva Guys. We’re ten times cooler these daysJ.
For the sophisticated yeshiva guy who wishes to answer the invasive, prying yentele performing said inquiry, there are a number of potential responses. Listed below are some of them for your use. Please note that these “zugs” are copyrighted, and available for your use only under license. Kidding.
Alef)
Yente who doesn’t know you from cholent beans: “So are you in the market”?
Sophisticated YG:
“Certainly. I’m currently listed on eBay, Craiglist, and will shortly be going up for sale in Sotheby’s. I should warn you though, that I’m pretty flippin’ expensive.”
Beis)
Yentel, a close cousin of the above Yente: “So are you going into shidduchim”?
Yeshivishe Yeshiva Guy:
“Zichur. This mitzvah is the first mitzvah in the Torah, and to be oisek in it is a huge zchus. I’d love to assist two Yidden in this mitzvah, and plan on going into the business professionally soon. I’m gonna call myself Yeshiva Guy the Shadchan.”
Gimmel)
All Knowing Yente (with a subtle smirk): “So, nu, where are you holding”?
Yeshiva Guy (with a not-so-subtle smirk):
“Well, to tell you the truth, I’m thinking of going back into Nezikin. Kodshim is kind of boring, you know what I mean? On the other hand, maybe I’ll just switch to Menochos…then again, …etc., etc.”
Daled)
Yente Neighbor asking you for information on your friend who has since graduated college and is working: “So about his financial situation…what business is he in”?
Caustic Yeshiva Guy:
“None of yours”. Zing.
Not that you asked, but I liked the original layout the best, the one with the tan-colored background with stuff at the top (I can’t remember what). Am I missing something obvious, or do I need to click on the post in order to see if there are comments?
The original layout was actually a Blogger theme (although there is a WP theme). Was it better than this one, IYO?
Re Comments: Can you see them now?
I love Alef the best! But if he’s on craigslist why havent I found him?
Obviously, he’s already been sold. Be quicker next time.